The Initiative of Zacchaeus

In a typical classroom of elementary / primary students, a teacher ended her lesson and asked, "Can I have 2 volunteers to help me carry this pile of books down to the staffroom?" Immediately, and with great enthusiasm never granted to homework, 85% of the students raised their hands, some were even standing up and others were frantically waving their hands in the air, just hoping to be noticed and called upon. The teacher was at a loss and did not know who to pick. She scanned all their faces and picked 2 students whom she felt needed a little boost of confidence and the little nudge of acceptance and assurance. One boy ran up to the teacher without delay with such excitement in his eyes and the other, before doing the same, turned to his friends around him and gave a smug look. 

It is evident that "being called upon" by someone held in high accord has the effect of confirming one's value and self-worth for these children who are well aware that they belong to a "tail-end" class and are looked down upon by their peers who are seemingly more academically inclined. 

Today's Gospel about Zacchaeus is a timely reminder of the kind of faith in Jesus that we are invited to build. Zacchaeus "hurried down and welcomed him (Jesus) joyfully" when Jesus called upon him, asked him to come down from the sycamore tree, and expressed His choice of Zacchaues' house to live in that night. Like the 2 students in the class, Zacchaeus was filled with joy and excitement that Jesus, the man he had probably heard so much about, had noticed him and called upon him amidst all others in the crowd. Zacchaeus' eagerness to respond to Jesus's request was childlike and genuine. He must have been well aware of the sinfulness of his life being a public sinner as a tax collector but felt hopeful in Jesus. There must have been such a deep attraction to Jesus. Such is the childlike eagerness and excitement we are called to have towards having Jesus in our lives; that we sincerely and genuinely desire for this same Jesus, the source of all forgiveness and compassion, and we want Him to remain in our hearts for all eternity.

However, Zacchaeus was discouraged by the crowd who only knew to judge and condemn him for his sinfulness. Perhaps, if we have fallen behind in our spiritual life and decide to return to Christ, we may have experienced this little voice of guilt that reminds us very fervently of how sinful we have been and how unworthy we are to receive of God's forgiveness, mercy and love. In this, we can relate better to Zacchaeus, whom the crowd had reminded of how sinful he was. And the same invitation is extended to us as that to Zacchaeus - Are we going to be put down by these reminders of guilt or are we going to hold firm in our faith in the God of mercy and compassion? Zacchaeus chose to let nothing, not even sin, stand between him and Jesus. He was willing and ready to repent, make amends and pay his "debts" so as to be more worthy of Jesus staying at his house. What about us? What has been the factors that are standing in our way, preventing us from trusting God enough to come more fully into His presence, to be truly sorry for our sins, to ask for forgiveness and make amends for what we have done? What have we done to make ourselves more worthy to receive Christ into our hearts, though we can never be fully worthy of Him? Are we ready to give up our old and comfortable ways, and adopt the ways of Christ ever more decisively like the good example Zacchaeus has shown us? 

Zacchaeus was hopeful and he repented from his sinful ways, and he had done so fittingly as the 1st reading of today also highlights to us, "Yet you are merciful to all, because you can do all things and overlook men's sins so that they can repent." We have been told time and again that God is merciful. We know that He forgives us our sins and grants us peace in our days. It is because of this faith in God that we have a reason, a purpose for our repentance. We can be forgiven. Thus, all we need to do is to rely on "the Lord (who) supports all who fall and raises all who are bowed down", as in the responsorial psalm today assures. The question to ask ourselves first is, "Do we, like Zacchaeus, want to even find out more about this Jesus and how much do we want this?" Zacchaeus wanted so much to find out about Jesus that he climbed a tree, a symbol of his initiative and effort in seeking this Jesus. And Jesus saw him (and perhaps his efforts and inner desires too), called upon him and chose him.  How much initiative and effort do we want to put in into our search for Jesus? How much do we want Jesus in our lives, in our hearts? Till we get clear on these, there is no way our spiritual life and personal relationship with Jesus can ever deepen or grow. 

Let's spend some time to think through the questions posed and make a decisive stand about who we want God to be in our lives. I pray that God's word and inspiration will take root in our hearts and begin to grow in us. 

31 October 2010

10.34pm

Cents and Sensitivity

Cents & Sensitivity Part 1



Cents & Sensitivity Part 2

I Decide Now

I decide now to trust, even though I have doubts.

I decide now to love, even though I feel nothing. 

I decide now to accept, even though I do not comprehend.

I decide now to act in love, even though I am tired. 

I decide now to pray, even though I do not know the best way to.

I decide now to follow Christ, even though the world says otherwise.

I decide now to hope, even though I am disappointed. 

I decide now to believe, even though I am uncertain.

I decide now to walk, even though I cannot see the road. 

I decide now to be faithful, even though I struggle. 

I decide now to be supportive, even though I am weak.

I decide now to listen, even though I am busy.

I decide now to be humble, even though I have achieved. 

I decide now to persevere, even though I feel hopeless. 

I decide now to be God's disciple, even though I know my imperfections.

It matters not what I feel, what I think, what I experience, what the struggle;

What matters is what I decide NOW to do for the God whose love for me is unwaivering, patient and infinite. 

28 October 2010

12.07pm

Touching God in Creation

I stood on the ground and looked up at the dark sky, lit by the moon that reflects the Sun's rays that pierced through the clouds. The stars shone brightly and persistently. I tried to imagine what lies beyond the distance my human eyes could take me, I tried to absorb the magnitude of the limitless sky, I tried to contain the magnificence of the infinitely Magnificent One who made them all, both seen and unseen. I could only try; I could not fully imagine, nor fully absorb, let alone contain all that has come to be in all of God's wonderful creation. And I stood there on the ground, struck in awe, overpowered in the splendor. At that moment, I "touched" God in His creation. Have you "touched" creation today? Have you connected with God?

27 October 2010

10.22pm

  

Complacency

Blessed Teresa of Calcutta warned that the devil tempts us not so much as to harm us but to kill the God in us. One sure way to kill this God in us is to influence us to be complacent. At times, life is so smooth-sailing that what need for God do we have? At times, when we have deepened our relationship with God and received many blessings from Him, we feel "honoured" with the awareness that not everyone has been as blessed as us. And then, we grow in complacency and lose the vigour, zeal and sincerity in our search for God, thinking we've already "found" Him. With complacency and a decline in our intensity of prayer, we can be sure we are disallowing God to deepen our love and faith in Him and when we've "used up" the existing blessings and graces He has blessed us with, we will run dry like the sand in the desert. 

Faith and love for God can never be stagnant. We may feel as if it is stagnant but in actual fact, they either multiply or divide, the final result either gets larger or smaller. If we pray fervently and sincerely, our faith and love for God will grow stronger and deeper; if we do not pray fervently and sincerely, our faith and love for God will diminish. Is there another option in between praying and not praying fervently and sincerely that we can choose and that can lead us to have our faith and love at the same level, in undying constancy? The devil does not wait patiently for us to decide to pray or not pray. As soon as we waiver in our commitment to be firmly connected with God in our prayers, he is more than happy to jump in and influence our hearts even more.

Guard against complacency with humility and sheer honesty with ourselves of who we really are before God. When we examine our conscience daily and honestly, we will be well aware of how sinful we really are. Perhaps we only see the bad things we have done but remember also the good that we have failed to do. For God gives different talents to us so that as His body, we complement one another in doing whatever we can to serve Him in His people. For the fact that we don't fully utilise all our gifts to the fullest to serve God is already a deprivation of others of the good they could have received from us otherwise. When we have failed to use our lives to the fullest for God's Kingdom building, we join in the contingent of lukewarm disciples who speak of loving God but show not in the ways we live. In so doing, we make ourselves a hindrance to God's love to others as we reject being God's instrument and messenger of His love to the world. With this rejection, we are rejecting also God's Holy Will for us to be His disciples. 

Let us open our hearts today more fully to God, to be more aware of His holy presence in our hearts, our lives and all around us so that we may be more aware of His invitations in the silence of our hearts to pray more sincerely and zealously today and that in so doing, He can fill us with His Holy Spirit to move our hearts into a deeper love and a greater faith in Him.

19 October 2010, Tuesday

6.33am

Life Worth Living

I remember taking a bus to a particular destination one early morning during a school holiday. I sat by the window and did what I'd always love to do - observe people. I was feeling quite happy since I did not have to work but when I looked at the people at every bus stop and along the roads, I realised that everyone else, student or working adult, looked glum, down, sleepy and listless. Perhaps, that was also how I looked like when my holidays ended. Perhaps, this little observation of facial expressions can shed some light on the level of fulfilment we feel our lives to be.  

Look at the teens roaming the streets at wee hours in the morning, those dancing seductively and getting high on alcohol or drugs at the clubs, those sitting at the void decks or parks staring into space, and even those who blast heavy metal songs into their suffering ears. Beyond the façade that they take much pride in putting up, is there peace, love, joy, security or fulfilment?

Many of us love travelling; who wouldn't welcome a holiday?! We spend hundreds and thousands on a tour, we are filled with excitement all through the holiday, we return back home at last, back to reality and then, what...? We go to work or school everyday, do what we have to do, get off school and work, then, what...?  We go to a party, drink, have loads of fun and laughters, return home at the end of it all, and then, what...? We can path our way from a lowly ranking employee to the General Manager and then, what...? Today, Fr. Stephen Yim reminds us during morning mass that without Jesus, without God, even if we have all that we want, so what? 

We gain nothing if we have not gained Jesus. 

We love nothing if we do not love Jesus. 

We lose everything if we lose Jesus.

We live for nothing if we do not live for Jesus. 

Excitement takes our attention away from the void in our hearts and souls that we would otherwise be so aware of. But when we connect with the deepest part of our hearts, we know that it remains unfulfilled and being unfulfilled, it is "restless until it rests in You (Jesus)" - St. Augustine. God is the only source of goodness; peace, joy, happiness, fulfilment, mercy, graciousness, etc. If we do not live in His ways, there is no way we can obtain these gifts. Without these gifts, there is no way we can be filled and our hearts will just be an empty vessel filled with air and dust. 

Life is only worth living when lived in God's ways. God's ways are that of peace, forgiveness, mercy, compassion, justice, responsibility, commitment, acceptance, love, selflessness, sacrifice, patience, understanding, etc. We know it, that these are the essential ingredients to build relationships. Every act of relating to a fellow human is an opportunity to find Christ; we find Christ in our decisions on how to relate to one another. We find Christ when we live in His ways by being an upholder of peace, justice, forgiveness, compassion, etc, to those we relate to daily. When we participate actively in God's ways and share Him with those we meet, and do it with love, out of love for God, this becomes the sole purpose of our lives, our source of fulfilment because it is God, Himself, we are filling our hearts, minds and souls with. Is there something or someone greater that could fill us more completely than Jesus?

14 October 2010

12.07am

Remembering & Believing in God, Always

I believe in the sun, even when it's not shining.

I believe in love, even when I can't feel it.

I believe in God, even when He is silent.

After the war, soldiers explored a concentration camp. They entered a cell where men had been kept. In that cell, they found these words scratched into the wall.

What would it be like to live in darkness, perhaps with only a tiny window that gives us a glimpse of the sun? How would it be like to live through every night lying on the cold, hard floor with no pillow to sink our heads into or a blanket to shield us from the cold; looking up at the grey "sky" that perpetually confines us in a box and thinking of the family and love ones we miss so dearly?

Our lives are full of trials and sufferings that we need not be confined in a cell to feel caged, depressed and lost. We are disillusioned by the pain we feel that we cannot understand how God can actually be real. No matter how many times the priest may preach in his homilies about God being our only source of hope, there just seems to be no hope. 

Where is God? 

Why doesn't He answer my prayers?

How can God let this kind of thing happen?

What's the point of praying? 

What's the point of going to church?

I don't know what God is doing; I feel nothing when I pray;

I give up!! 

What are we looking for? What are we expecting out of this person named Jesus? As people would say, "Seeing is believing." Can we believe without seeing?

As a matter of fact, we know that the sun is always shining because we learn that in elementary Science. We don't see the sun shining at night because of the rotation of the earth on its axis but we know and thus, believe that the sun never stops shining. In the same way, Jesus's love for us is consistent and everlasting even when we do not feel it, and He is always with us even when we cannot hear Him speak. Science cannot vouch for this but God gave us the ultimate assurance in Jesus, who left us His Holy Spirit so that knowing of this great love that God has for us, we may "see" and believe in Him. 

Yet, we are always looking out for forms of His love, e.g. if our prayers have been answered, if we pray and feel Him very close to us, etc. If a husband is always buying flowers every month for his wife, washing the dishes after a meal, listening to her day and being there when she is down etc, it is obvious that he loves his wife. But what use is this love if she does not believe he loves her? Her knowledge of his love for her is based on the things he does for her. What happens if her husband's company starts to cut its employees' pay and he stops buying her flowers? Would she start to wonder, at least at some point in time, if it was really because of the pay-cut or could he have bought flowers for another woman instead? 

So it is with God. We can never fully understand God's ways, why He does not give us a particular thing we have been praying so hard for or why He allows my love one to suffer the pain of cancer, etc. When prayers are unanswered, and all is silent, can we still believe in the God who sent His only beloved Son to suffer and die for us? Can we still believe in God's love that does not manifest itself in ways we want? Is God some spirit that sits at the bottom of a wishing well to collect our coins or a genie in a lamp to be released by us whom he must then serve as his master? 

It is so easy to forget who God is. When emotions overwhelm, sorrow cuts deep in our hearts, excitement pushes our focus onto the exterior, etc, can we still remember who God is? The faithful One who never abandons us, always loving us unconditionally, sacrificially and mercifully? Can we hold on to this truth even when everything we are experiencing appear to contradict it? 

Let us pray that God will increase our faith and deepen the love we have for Him, so that coming to know Him intimately, we can always faithfully remember who this God is so that we may believe in His love, even when we cannot feel it, believe in Him, even when He is silent.

11 October 2010

9.43pm

Falling in Faith

Rachel was standing on the sofa and mummy, who stood behind her, created an oval around Rachel with her arms. She asked little Rachel, almost four years of age, "Do you dare to fall forward? Do you trust that I will catch you?" Rachel was all excited, giggling and then off she went. She kept her feet together, leaned forward and fell into the hands of her mother. Repeating this several times, even with her eyes closed as her mother told her to do, I decided to test her courage. I stood a metre in front of her and had my arms wide open, holding a cushion under my chin to cushion her fall. Without thinking, she just fell on me, over and over. 

I was amazed at how Rachel could take that lean forward while feeling no fear or showing any hesitation. She is so trusting and she did not ask how she should fall or analyse how to fall; she just fell. She needed no additional assurances that we would definitely catch hold of her to fully believe we would. She just believed. She did not worry that if she had closed her eyes, she would not be able to see where she was falling. She just obeyed.

How often do we face similar situations as that of Rachel, being asked to fall? Do we allow ourselves to just fall or do we hold back, calculate our risks, contemplate, etc? How often has our Lord asked us to close our eyes, trust in His mighty and loving hands, and without hesitation or reservation, just simply fall right into His arms? Do we not know who this Jesus is? Are we not yet convinced of His faithfulness to us that we still lack the courage to let go of ourselves and let God "catch" us? How often do we find ourselves fighting for control over our lives and refusing God's entry to freely lead and guide us without our expectations and demands, and  allow Him to influence our daily choices? If it is all about us, then... what about God? 

We build up our lives and in adulthood especially, we enjoy more successes than suffer failures. In the midst of these, we also build up our walls of pride in a world named "me-only"; It is all about me. And then when we meet with life crises, and we turn to God in desperate prayer, God affirms us that He will stay with us and lead us; He will make a way when there seems to be no way. And then He asks us to trust in Him completely in our moments of tribulations, to just "fall" right into His arms. How can we possibly do that now when we have been so familiar with attributing everything to our own power and filling our minds and hearts with self-centred expectations and demands? No, until we can let go of ourselves, until we close our eyes, keep our feet together and just fall in complete trust, there is no way God can enter and fill our lives. There is no way that God can be God in our lives unless we denounce the false idol called "myself". This false idol gives nothing but insecurity and precisely so, do we who worship this idol feel insecure and unwilling to trust. 

Like Rachel, once we have shut out all "noises" and just choose to trust, we will keep falling and falling, being caught one time after another, and we will be laughing and giggling, all excited and secure that we are always in good hands.

06 October 2010

10.16pm

When the Lights Go Out

Oh my good Jesus, where art thou?
I call and there is no answer,

I seek and I cannot find,

I wait and grow impatient,

I search but find not the joy I once knew.

I ask but find not the love in the depths I once had.

My heart is restless, anxious and lost.

Stay with me, my good Jesus, so that I may stay with You.

Fill me again with your Spirit, so that my heart may more zealously and sincerely love You.

Watch over me, let me never wander far from Your love.

Guide my thoughts, words and deeds, so that I may think, speak and do only what is pleasing to You.

Transform this wicked heart of mine into a radiant sign of Your love for the world.

You know I love You.

Hold my hands tight as You try me and teach me humility and faithfulness.

That at the end of my pilgrimage of struggles, I may stand victorious in Your Glory, ever steadfast and true to Your call to love and serve You.

05 October 2010, Tuesday
11.49am

Loving the God in Others

When we meet someone who has hurt us, take a pause in the hassle and bustle of the day.

When we meet someone we cannot stand, take a pause in the hassle and bustle of the day.

When we meet someone we hate us, take a pause in the hassle and bustle of the day.

When we meet someone who is weird, temperamental, hostile, rude, nasty, unappreciative, demanding, selfish, inconsiderate, judgemental and humanly impossible to love, take a pause in the hassle and bustle of the day.

Take a pause in the hassle and bustle of the day and reconnect with the God in our hearts and in our lives. Recognise that these people who we find it so impossible to love are, like us, created by God, loved by God and are children of God. 

If we love God, and we see God in these people, then we must "learn to love God differently". We have to choose to love these people, though difficult to accept and live out this challenge, but is made possible because "God is always there to give us all the graces and strength we need to live in His ways." And to love others not because we feel all lovey dovey towards them but because we firmly know and accept that this is what God wants us to do for Him. And we do this in total surrendering of our limitations and sinfulness, in complete obedience to God's Holy Will. 

Quotations 

"An Appreciation of Ignatian Spirituality & A Glimpse of Jesuit Spirituality" by Fr. Philip Heng,S.J.

02 October 2010

8.47am

Fish in the Ocean

The ocean, though separated by regions, forms one single ocean, and in it is the home for such an uncountable number of marine life. If we were this fish in this picture, would we not feel so small in this seemingly unlimited body of water we can never ever completely explore? Would we not feel so insecure being constantly on guard about the preys that might suddenly sneak up on us and catch us unaware? Water is our home. If we were to swim to the Pacific, water is what would be constantly surrounding us. If we were to swim to the Arctic, water is surrounding us. No matter which part in this 70% of Earth we are in, water is always around us and there is no way we can swim to a spot that is void of water.

With the same concept of this fish in the ocean, always and forever surrounded by water (so long as it lives and dies in the ocean, never leaving it), we can understand our relationship with God. He is always surrounding us and all of His creation. He and His creation cannot be separated; forming a relationship that cannot be severed. How may a gift be independent of its giver, a child of its mother, or a piece of paper be disconnected and without relationship with its tree? Since the presence of the Creator is in the Creation, so we, like this fish, are constantly surrounded by the holy presence of God. Where can we run from Him? We can only ignore Him and try to convince ourselves He is not surrounding us as best as this fish tries to deny it is surrounded by water. 

Psalm 139 Verse 7-12

Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence? 

If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol (in Hebrew, means the place where those that had died were believed to be congregated), you are there.

If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast. 

If I say, "Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light around me become night", 

even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is as bright as the day, for darkness is as light to you.

There is nowhere we can run from God. We have to recognise this and acknowledge His presence. God is not a concept vastly distant and a subject for the Theologians. He is real and concrete. We do not need to look far and wide in the search for visible evidences of His presence. If we acknowledge Him as God and want always to dwell in His presence, we need  to just think of ourselves as this little fish in the magnificent ocean and God as the "water" that surrounds us completely and continuously.

Story of the fish from Fr. Ponnudurai,S.J. during retreat

30 September 2010

12.03am

3 Realities 6 Relationships & the Bible

The three realities:

1. God

2. Man 

3. Creation

The six relationships:

1. 

God created all of creation out of love for us. His purpose for creation is to serve mankind by providing mankind with all that we need to survive e.g. food, medicine, clothing, etc.

2. 

God created mankind in His image and likeness, also out of love. From once a thought and idea in His mind, He decided to create each one of us and breathe life into us.

3. 

Creation, in providing for man all that man needs, fulfils God's purpose for it and in this fulfilment, it is in union with God its Creator.

4.

Creation serves mankind in the provision of all things for mankind's survival. This relationship fulfils God's purpose for it and thus, brings about relationship 3. Creation is God's love for us; in that God knows our every need (not want) and provides for these needs free of charge (until man made money). He gives to us all that is good and needed. 

5. 

Because mankind depends on creation for all that we need, it is our duty and responsibility to take good care of creation, failing which, we will only suffer the consequences e.g. global warming, diseases, etc. All of God's creation is to be respected and taken care of.

6. 

God first loved us and so created us in order that we may come to know Him and His infinite love for us. We cannot possibly do that if we only existed as a thought and idea in God's mind (without Him transferring that thought into a creation of us). When we fulfil the purpose He has set out for us, when we come to know Him, love Him and walk in His ways, we create this relationship #6 and be in union with Him. Failing to do so, we distant ourselves from God in a rejection of Him in our lives. When we fulfil His will for us, we, in turn, receive fulfilment in our lives.

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The bible that consists of the accounts and stories various authors wrote, inspired by God through the Holy Spirit, is a tool and gift God has given to us. It shows us the way to live our lives by God's commandments depicted in His direct instructions (as in the 10 commandments, etc) and in parables and other stories. It gives us the direction to take in life, the values we need to adopt as our own, and above all, helps us to come to know God better and experience Him more deeply even though we do not live in the same time as Him. There is no way we can ever know our Creator if He had not revealed Himself to anyone which then eliminates all possibility of oral traditions and thereafter written traditions. There would, inevitably, be no bible to record the non-existent spiritual experiences and certainly, 2000 years after His death, we would never have come to read about Him, let alone know Him and love Him. 

The bible is God's gift to us to help us discover God's plan and will for us so that we may know what purpose to fulfil. It is the very aid to help us create relationship #6, without which, we will be without God in the greatest abyss of emptiness and despair. This, perhaps, is God's intention of creating the bible, to be passed on from one generation to the next, that we who are gifted with the opportunity to read it may choose to follow in His ways and teachings and be, in our own lives, filled. If we read the bible with the attitude that this bible is God's channel of communicating to us, we will certainly open our hearts more fully to its Truths and search more deeply and actively the message God is trying to communicate to us. The only result of this is that we grow more connected to God and His ways in His love. When God reveals more and more of Himself to us, and we come to experience this all loving and eternal God personally and intimately, we would naturally say "yes" to reciprocating His love by loving Him in return faithfully and willingly. 

Many thanks to Fr. Ponnudurai,S.J. for teaching me about the 3 realities and 6 relationships during my retreat

Reflection on the bible and its purpose inspired by the Holy Spirit during RCIA group sharing

29 September 2010

12.33am 

Trusting the Almighty and Ever-loving God

In today's 1st reading in the book of Wisdom, we see Job being tested in his faith and love for God. Job attributed all that he had, even his clothes, to God and takes all these as God's blessings and gifts. Although relatively successful with a decently comfortable life, he did not give credits for his achievements to himself nor the successes to his power. Instead, he attributed everything to the mercy, graciousness and generosity of God. It was undoubtedly an act of faith and of humility. Whatever Job once had, he did not grow overly attached to them that he was not willing to let them go and surrender them to God. 

If we were able to adopt this attitude of Job, how much less miserable we would be! Money, health, reputation, image, love ones, friends, job, intelligence, voice, faculty of speech, memory, relationships of all sorts and even the Holy Spirit and spiritual consolation are all God's gifts to us. These gifts are His alone, only on loan to us in our lives to aid us in fulfilling what He set us out to fulfil. Since these gifts belong to Him, then He has the right to take them back when He thinks it is time to. And while feeling upset if any of these are recalled back to Him, it is an invitation for us to let it go humbly and with sheer gratitude that we were once given those gifts so that we may come to know God's infinite and merciful love manifested in His blessings and gifts to us. We pray that if God wills it, that those gifts He will once again gift to us in His time. 

Who are we to decide for God the time He has to give us His gifts? We may have experienced friends and family asking us what we want for our upcoming birthdays. Thinking through the many desires in our hearts, we may even give them a list of things they can buy for our birthdays. We may get a few things from our wish list but that may not even happen since the final decision of what present to get still lies in the giver. At the party, can I, like an ignorant child, go around to my guests and ask them one by one what they had gotten for me or tell them that they could give me my presents already? Can we ask God to give us His gifts in the time we want? Certainly, it is not within our authority to do so. Hence, that leaves us with our approach to awaiting God's gifts - prayer, trust, patience and simply, wait.  We have to patiently wait for His gifts and not be desperate or anxious when we have asked for our "gifts" but have not received them. 

Trust in God's plan, always be open and ready to accept whatever His plan presents to us, go with His plan like water flowing around rocks in a cascading river. Why should anything affect us so much that our emotions overwhelm our entire beings? If all is in God's mighty and loving hands, trust that He sees us, the dangers before us and knows our every need. He will provide every grace we need to overcome any and every obstacle and turmoil. He is not anxious like we are. He can calm an angry sea!! Peace originates from Him. If we trust in God, God will give us the peace of knowing we are very well taken care of, in good and mighty hands. 

Is there a pair of hands that is mightier? 

Is there a pair of hands more loving? 

Is there a power more powerful?

Is there an intelligence more superior? 

If this pair of hands of our God is not the hands we entrust our entire selves and lives to, who then can we rely on and entrust ourselves to? Who can be more reliable? 

The story of Job may just be fiction. However, the message taught to us is real and concrete - to follow Job in responding to God's call to always trust in Him and to always be grateful for what He has gifted us with, things that are so often taken for granted. We are called to deny the possession of our "possessions", attributing all to God, giving unto Him all that is His. Having heard or read this reading, what do we do in order for God's message in this bible passage to take root in our hearts? 

27 September 2010

11.37pm

Mary at the Foot of the Cross

Mary, at the foot of the cross, watching her Son hang lifeless, her sorrow like a sword piercing through her Immaculate Heart. She felt the loss of her Son, her only Son. She was all alone. Did she like what she was experiencing? I cannot think of anyone who would in her situation. My whole being must have been badly shaken. Everything she once knew, had, believed in, hoped in, etc must have all been threatened, blurred and lost in that moment of great sorrow and pain. Yet, Mary stood at the foot of the cross and chose to be ever faithful to the Will of the Father. She might not have understood all that had happened or accept the reason for all that was happening, and she probably did not know what life would be without her Son from then on; she must have had tons of uncertainty on top of the sorrow to cope with. Yet, Mary stood at the foot of the cross, surrendering her pain and sorrow to God, accepting all that she was experiencing and still keeping her faith in God as firm and immovable as the mountains. She put herself entirely into the hands of the Father, whom she trusts would take good care of her. She was steadfast in her trust in the love and faithfulness of God. And she accepted all her sufferings with hope, trust and obedience. 

As disciples of God, there are many times we try to build up a close and intimate relationship with God but experiences in life will overwhelm and throw us off track and affect our relationship with God drastically. There are times of emotional turmoil that destroy the spiritual consolation we once enjoyed. But, like Mary, we are invited to place our complete trust in God consistently and faithfully, to always stand at the foot of the cross of Jesus and remain there whether or not we feel close to Him or as if we've "lost" Him. And even though the "feeling" of closeness, peace and joy are not experienced in prayer, we still must continue to pray and trust that by the perfect and infinite love of God, He will certainly faithfully be with us every step of the way (whether or not we feel it), loving us and listening to our every need and prayer. He will never abandon us. That is His promise to us if we always abide in Him. Hence, let us, no matter what the experience, stand steadfast at the foot of the cross, set our eyes firmly on Him and pray for His blessings and graces to walk in His way of goodness and love. 

26 September 2010

9.28am

Prayer - Stay with Me, Lord

STAY WITH ME, LORD
(Prayer after Holy Communion)


Stay with me, Lord, for without Your presence I forget You; You know how easily I abandon You.
Stay with me, Lord, for without Your strength I fail; You know how weak I am.
Stay with me, Lord, for without You my fervour fails; You are my life.
Stay with me, Lord, for without You I am in darkness; You are my light.
Stay with me, Lord, and show me Your Will.
Stay with me, Lord, and let me hear Your voice.
Stay with me, Lord, that I may follow You.
Stay with me, Lord, that I may love you more.
Stay with me, Lord, that I may stay with You. If You would have me to be faithful, stay with me, Lord.


Stay with me, Jesus, for though my soul is pour, it desires to be an abode of love for You, a place of consolation.


Stay with me, Jesus, for it is getting late, the day is ending, life is passing; death, judgement and eternity are coming soon. Now I  must muster all my forces so that I do not faint on the road. I have great need of You on this journey. It is getting late and death is approaching. Darkness, temptations, dryness, crosses and troubles beset me, and Oh, how much I need You, my good Jesus, in this night of exile.


Stay with me, Jesus, because this night of life is so full of dangers and I have need of You. Grant that, like Your disciples, I may recognize You in the breaking of bread. Grant that the Eucharistic union may be the light which casts out the darkness, the force to sustain me and the one means to sanctify my soul.


Stay with me, Jesus, because when death arrives, if I cannot be really with You in Holy Communion, then I shall wish to remain united with You at least through grace and love. 


Stay with me, Jesus, I do not ask You for divine consolation because I do not deserve it, but I beg You with all my strength for the gift of Your most holy presence.


Stay with me, Lord, You alone I seek; Your Love, Your Grace, Your Will, Your Heart, Your Spirit, for I love You. You alone I love. Let me seek no other reward but the increase of that love, that my love may be real and firm and practical. I ask no more than to love You with all my heart on earth and to follow You with all-perfected love for all eternity. Amen.